i stumbled upon this really great video from ixara
i just have to repost it because i sure do could relate..
how when we meet someone special,
we start out as strangers,
and when the relationship doesn't turn out well,
we become strangers to each other again..
Have you ever been in a serious relationship?
Did all the seven stages mentioned in the video happen to you and your ex when you were still together?
The girl said, "break up or get married, it's gonna be one or the other. What do you think will happen if we don't end up together? Will we hate each other? Keep in touch?"
As for me, yeah, all the 7 stages did happen to me and my ex. And we did hate each other but still kept in touch. Just like the girl in the story, I had a new bf after me and my ex broke up, but on my case it was just a cover-up to show I had really moved on but the truth is I'll never get over him.. Abruptly, I broke up with the new bf.
Though now, were not still THAT comfortable with each other, my ex and I are really like close friends again. The good thing about this is that we realized we never would have to grow apart from each other, never have to pretend, and just be like a flowing river, let the water take us to its course. No commitment but whatever happens in the future I hope we are both happy and satisfied.(: